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“If you're understood in maybe, I don't know, 60% of your soul by your partner, that's fantastic. Don't expect that it's going to be 100%. Of course you will be lonely.” quote by Alain de Botton
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“If you're understood in maybe, I don't know, 60% of your soul by your partner, that's fantastic. Don't expect that it's going to be 100%. Of course you will be lonely.”

Alain de Botton

About This Quote

Source Book: Essays in Love, 1995

Partners can understand most, but not all, of each other's inner selves; expect imperfections.

In simple terms: Partners rarely know each other fully.

Key Takeaway

Accept imperfect understanding in relationships.

Themes

love expectations communication

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical relationship

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • marriage
  • friendship
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

psychology intimacy

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you handle unknown aspects of a partner?
  • Can acceptance improve intimacy?
A Different Perspective

Expecting total understanding can cause disappointment.

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