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Feels Quote by Ahdaf Soueif

“Tell me, if you thought a man had a tendresse for you, but he wasn't doing anything about it. And you wanted to hurry him up a little so you made a move, an unmistakable move; one that nobody could pretend had been a misunderstanding. And he - he ignored it - ignored you. What would you feel?” quote by Ahdaf Soueif
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“Tell me, if you thought a man had a tendresse for you, but he wasn't doing anything about it. And you wanted to hurry him up a little so you made a move, an unmistakable move; one that nobody could pretend had been a misunderstanding. And he - he ignored it - ignored you. What would you feel?”

Ahdaf Soueif

About This Quote

Source Novel: Season of Migration to the North, 2000

Unrequited affection leads to frustration when a clear advance is ignored, exposing vulnerability and disappointment.

In simple terms: Feeling rejected after a bold move.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and respect boundaries.

Themes

love rejection communication vulnerability

Mood

conflicted hopeful

Type

relationship emotional

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • conflict resolution
  • self‑esteem
  • assertiveness

Key Concepts

interpersonal dynamics emotional honesty

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you handle rejection?
  • What signals indicate genuine interest?
A Different Perspective

The other party may have different reasons for ignoring, not necessarily lack of feeling.

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