My time Quote by Abraham Lincoln
“When I am getting ready to reason with a man, I spend one-third of my time thinking about myself and what I am going to say and two-thirds about him and what he is going to say.”
About This Quote
Source Speech: Unknown source, attributed to Lincoln
Preparing to argue involves self‑preparation and listening to the other side, but may be biased toward self‑interest.
In simple terms: Think about yourself and the other when debating.
Key Takeaway
Balance self‑preparation with genuine listening.
Themes
communication
self‑awareness
debate
Mood
thoughtful
analytical
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- public speaking
- conflict resolution
- personal negotiations
- team meetings
Key Concepts
rhetoric
cognitive bias
Questions to Reflect On
- How much of your argument is about you?
- Can you shift more focus to the other?
A Different Perspective
Self‑focus can dominate, reducing true empathy.
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