““Descriptively, we can see in each person his own (weak) tendencies to grow toward self-actualization; and also descriptively, we can see his various (weak) tendencies toward regressing (out of fear, hostility, or laziness). [...] if a person could himself see all the likely consequences of growth and all the likely consequences of coasting or of regression, and if he were allowed to choose between them, he would always (in principle, and under 'good conditions') choose the consequences of growth and reject the consequences of regression. That is, the more one knows of the actual consequences of growth-choices and regression-choices, the more attractive become the growth-choices to practically any human being. And these are the actual choices he is prone to make if conditions are good, i.e., if he is allowed truly free choice so that his organism can express its own nature.””
![“Descriptively, we can see in each person his own (weak) tendencies to grow toward self-actualization; and also descriptively, we can see his various (weak) tendencies toward regressing (out of fear, hostility, or laziness). [...] if a person could himself see all the likely consequences of growth…” quote by Abraham H. Maslow](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/922/abraham-h-maslow-40250_free-choice_descriptively-we-can-see-in-each-person_2086675.jpg)
![“The question of desirable grief and pain or the necessity for it must also be faced. [Are] growth and self-fulfillment possible at all without pain and grief and sorrow and turmoil? If grief and pain are sometimes necessary for growth of the person, then we must learn not to protect people from…” quote by Abraham H. Maslow](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/d26/abraham-h-maslow-40250_death_the-question-of-desirable-grief-and-pain_2170879.jpg)
![“Shortsighted people make [experientialism and social reform] opposites, mutually exclusive. [...] The empirical fact is that self-actualizing people, our best experiencers, are also our most compassionate, our great improvers and reformers of society, our most effective fighters against injustice…” quote by Abraham H. Maslow](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/6b3/abraham-h-maslow-40250_better-person_shortsighted-people-make-experientialism_2553155.jpg)
