Being alone is almost always preferable to being with the wrong person. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
One person gets to decide if something is a problem in a relationship. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Mature people must find their own ways to cope with their own temptations. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
One of the privileges of adulthood is that your parents don't get to tell you what to do. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
One of the benefits of being divorced is that you no longer need to listen to your ex's assessment of the appropriateness… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Marriage is an intimate relationship between two people. It is a bad idea to involve a third party. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Boredom has an important function, because pushing through it can unleash creativity. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
People who are combative in one relationship tend to be combative in other relationships. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Ask 10 people about their family relationships and at least five of them will report an estrangement. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Bullies never want to acknowledge their own actions. They want to move through life without reflection or apology. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
In the name of friendship you should make sure your door is always open to listen. Don't feel you need to provide… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
In life, you don't get instant satisfaction. In life, you get to slog. You work. You grow. You take the long view.… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
This is a tough situation. But it is what it is, and time has an amazing way of knitting together solutions as… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
One downside of being an optimist is that optimistic people tend to forget yesterday's trauma in the belief that everything will turn… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Sometimes toxic people are so resistant to change that therapy does not really help them - but they send everybody else into… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Your job in life is to look after yourself and to find ways to get what you need - emotionally and otherwise… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
We human beings are definitely capable of loving more than one person, but it seems to go more smoothly if we don't… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
You should not be hovering in the background, inflating the drama. Simply envelop him in love and affection and let him know… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Bullies often act out by marshaling aggression to cover up for insecurity. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
I think that, on some level, everybody lives vicariously through couples who are getting married. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
You cannot beat the clock. My advice is to grab your moments of grace and enjoy them while they last. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Life is both short and complicated. People sometimes make baffling choices. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share Image
Sometimes the way through someone's tough outer shell is to do something obvious, thoughtful and sweet. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share
If you turn the heat down on the relationship, she will soften, the tension will lessen, and she will eventually inch closer to you.… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share
You must give and receive love only when doing so doesn't hurt others. That's the ethical path, and you should gain strength from walking… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share
If you feel guilty about not "playing nice," then you could easily alleviate your guilt by playing nice. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share
When you are wondering whether to say something negative about someone - even if it is true - the best rule to follow is,… — Amy Dickinson Copy Share
Groveling for connection from someone who compares you to Hitler is not good for a person's self-esteem. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share
Friendships can survive after massive disappointment, but only if both parties are honest with one another. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share
Bullies often act out by marshaling aggression to cover up for insecurity. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share
When the choice is between a demanding relationship and a vintage pickup truck, I'll choose the truck every time. — Amy Dickinson Copy Share