This used to be about sex. The literature of my people was pornography, filled with cries for mercy, drama enacted on people without prolonged negotiation, partners engaged in a dance in the middle of a bonfire. Now, it's 300-page manuals… — Laura Antoniou Copy Share Image
The trouble is, SMers are allowing themselves to be defined by what they are not. We think, "Oh, so many people believe that we're… — Laura Antoniou Copy Share Image
Fantasies aren't reality, I know, I know, I know. Except when they are. Except when you make them into reality. — Laura Antoniou Copy Share Image
What goes on when people overfetishize safety is that they're relapsing into that old frame of mind that what we're doing is bad. — Laura Antoniou Copy Share Image
This used to be about sex. The literature of my people was pornography, filled with cries for mercy, drama enacted on people without prolonged… — Laura Antoniou Copy Share Image
A slave's life is mostly composed of patience and study. Yes, study. If not with actual books, then following the example of greater, senior… — Laura Antoniou Copy Share Image
Safe, sane and consensual what do those words really mean? Assimilation, that's what. — Laura Antoniou Copy Share Image
“Rules. Even as the world of phone and computer sex (and dominance) were full of their own rules, so was the new world of… — Laura Antoniou Copy Share Image
