I agree that mommy wars are not good for any mothers: that such wars are time and effort wasted. — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
The terror of the ordinary is what keeps many affluent, educated parents and their kids out of the merely 'decent' schools, the… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
I am shamed to realize that in my marriage, my daughters never heard their father and me fight, which also meant, perhaps,… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
I find I'm the sort of harried working mother who has difficulty scheduling in a bit of rest amid the Ptolemaically complicated… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
I think my father, who was Chinese, basically felt if we didn't major in science, we would starve on the streets, so… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
Although my life is far from perfect, the irony is that in a divorced parent's custody schedule - with days on and… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
I am a member of the 'sandwich' generation, that group that must simultaneously care for elderly parents and support children. — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
Some of us stay married because we're in competition with our divorcing 1960s and 1970s parents, who made such a hash of… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
Typically, middle-class educated parents' search for their children's schools takes on the feel, if not of teen girls trying on different outfits,… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
While having two biological parents at home is, the statistics tell us, best for children, a single-parent household is almost as good. — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
I cohabited for 20 years with my longtime husband and father of my two now-teen daughters in a stable family household. — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
The paradox is, I can't miss the good things about my father while he is alive, but I will of course miss… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
I think private school is much better at customer service and making the parents feel better, especially in Los Angeles. It's almost… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
My sister is not my mother, but more than anyone else, she fills that role for me now - like it or… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
When I think of Chinese parents, I think of people who weep upon hearing Beethoven, but who can't necessarily bring that joy… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
Work... family - I'm doing it all. But here's the secret I share with so many other nanny- and housekeeper-less mothers I… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
I agree that mommy wars are not good for any mothers: that such wars are time and effort wasted. — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
Our entire personality, our energy level, and how we cope is hormonal. — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
Recently it was pointed out to me - in a kind of hurtful way, to be honest - that people in Los Angeles are… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
Beating up on public schools is not just our nation's favorite blood sport, but also a favorite conversational entertainment of the well-off - like… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
The terror of the ordinary is what keeps many affluent, educated parents and their kids out of the merely 'decent' schools, the ones that… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
I am shamed to realize that in my marriage, my daughters never heard their father and me fight, which also meant, perhaps, that we… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
We all fantasize about work that uses our creativity, is self-directed, happens during the hours we choose, and occurs in an attractively lit setting… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
The bad news in our most cosmopolitan and vibrant cities is that many middle-class people can no longer afford to live in 'middle-class' school… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
I find I'm the sort of harried working mother who has difficulty scheduling in a bit of rest amid the Ptolemaically complicated interlocking gears… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
I don't know how it's going for my sisters, but as my 40s and Verizon bills and mortgage payments roll on, I seem to… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image