“Topping, like bottoming, gives us permission to explore energies that are not OK in the outside world” — Dossie Easton Copy Share Image
“BDSM gives us permission to act in ways that are unacceptable in the outside world” — Dossie Easton Copy Share Image
“Bottoming can “turn off our brains” – giving us a quiet respite, in the endorphin high of pain play, the stillness of bondage, or… — Dossie Easton Copy Share Image
“The important thing is to be aware of your needs and wants, so you can go about getting them met with full consciousness. If… — Dossie Easton Copy Share Image
“One of the most valuable things we can learn from open sexual lifestyles is that our programming is changeable.” — Dossie Easton Copy Share Image
“When penetration is desired, the focus is on what works for the recipient: we have yet to meet a dildo that got hung up… — Dossie Easton Copy Share Image
It is cruel and insensitive to interpret an affair as a symptom of sickness in the relationship, as it leaves the 'cheated-on' partner -… — Dossie Easton Copy Share Image
“This kind of love can be thrilling and overwhelming and sometimes a hell of a lot of fun, but it is not the only… — Dossie Easton Copy Share Image
Once you have a handle on loving yourself, you can practice sharing that love with others. You’ve probably been taught to reserve the language… — Dossie Easton Copy Share Image
Increasing your repertoire has the advantage that you don't have to give up enjoying what you already like: it is always easier to add… — Dossie Easton Copy Share Image
“It felt so wonderful that she concluded that the existence of her clitoris was proof positive that God loved her.” — Dossie Easton Copy Share Image
