“Hide yourself in God, so when a man wants to find you he will have to go there first.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The only real battle in life is between hanging on and letting go.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Honesty is vulnerability. Sadly, not everyone can handle someone’s honesty. However, lying allows people to be comfortable.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The only real conflict you will ever have in your life won’t be with others, but with yourself.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Being different is a revolving door in your life where secure people enter and insecure exit.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Every relationship that has hit a crossroads has asked, “What is it that you want from me?” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“There comes a time in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, write another book or simply close… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The best don’t stick around when you treat them poorly, only the desperate do.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You can be bit in the leg by a rattlesnake and seek help to heal your wound, or you can run after… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“In the end, a lack of compatibility is what ruins relationships. You can't force someone to be an eagle when they are… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Chasing a man is not winning. The only thing you win is the loss of your dignity. Confidence is knowing your value,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, "What… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The secret to life is to have no fear. When you can let go of what others think about you, how something… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Your heart’s strength is measured by how hard it holds on. Your self worth and faith is measured by finally letting go.… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're allowing them… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“A competitive and insecure woman will tell you that “true love” is never giving up on someone you're in love with. A… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Some people can’t be in your life because they don’t have the power to help you improve it. That doesn’t mean you… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The more you talk about it, rehash it, rethink it, cross analyze it, debate it, respond to it, get paranoid about it,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Christ's version of kindness: I know you are hurt. I contributed to that. Maybe, I should have said more. Done more. Listened.… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The clock ticks; the taunting rhythm serving as a reminder that forward is the only way we can go. The mechanical heartbeat… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you want to know if someone was meant to be in your future, then remove all the worldly things about them… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The source to low self-esteem is the lack of control you feel you have in your life. If you spend your life… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When you think this pain is all you deserve, you are right. You are the only one that can decide how long… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Love is proved the moment you let go of someone because they need you to.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Chasing a person doesn’t give you value or build values in you. You earn your value by chasing morality and practicing dignity.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don’t waste your time trying to explain yourself to people that are committed to misunderstanding you. Instead, commit your time to explaining who they… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“God has a way of picking a “nobody” and turning their world upside down, in order to create a “somebody” that will remove the… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“Mental illness is not something you misunderstand in this era. Get educated because bias is no different than racism.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“It takes a female to have a baby, It takes a woman to raise a child, It takes a mother to raise them correctly,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“God is going to send you someone that will rescue you. Then one day you will rescue them in return and together your story… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“You can be bit in the leg by a rattlesnake and seek help to heal your wound, or you can run after it and… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“It is not the self respect and pride that you take with you, but the heritage you leave behind to your children that matters.… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“The art of being wise is the art of knowing that solutions don’t come from individuals, but rather experiences.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe, it is… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“After every storm, there is a rainbow. If you have eyes, you will find it. If you have wisdom, you will create it. If… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“Don’t ever feel bad that someone couldn’t give you all of their heart. Be grateful that you can take the least complicated part of… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“I don't know why anyone would be scared of a homeless person. The truly scary people are all the murder mystery writers. They spend… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“Until you have stood in another woman’s stilettos, you will never begin to know the year of pain she felt breaking them in.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“I don't understand women that call themselves a "bitch". It doesn't empower a woman. Rather, it reveals to everyone that you were deeply hurt… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“ The Prodigal Son They gave the deep end of their heart--a hue of crimson red, They whispered their desire and offered up their… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
