When people speak admiringly of a butch, what I see is someone who has taken on the best gendered characteristics of both woman and man, left a lot of the stuff born of misogyny and heterosexism behind, and walked forward… — S. Bear Bergman Copy Share Image
Remember - the fault is in the garment, certainly not the girl. There is nothing whatsoever wrong with the shape of her. Some designers cut their clothes for certain body types and others for others. Occasionally the pattern will make her ass look strangely square or the fabric will cling in an unflattering way, but Not Cut Well is always… — S. Bear Bergman Copy Share
When people speak admiringly of a butch, what I see is someone who has taken on the best gendered characteristics of both woman and… — S. Bear Bergman Copy Share Image
“A real friend, he'd say, is the one who, when you say you need for them to kill someone for you, asks only, "And where did you want me to dump the body?" I understood that it was hyperbole, but I saw him do barely less more than once, to exhaust himself in research and effort to him his people.… — S. Bear Bergman Copy Share
“As she began to speak she stood and started to wrap herself, expertly, creating a binding in minutes that held without a wrinkle until… — S. Bear Bergman Copy Share Image
“I am doing the best I can. I am hoping I am good enough. I am holding you close, as close as I can,… — S. Bear Bergman Copy Share Image
One bright pansy popping through a sidewalk crack will get weeded or stepped on; it's not until twenty fabulous flowers bust through and the… — S. Bear Bergman Copy Share Image
“I don't switch much, don't really want many people to fuck me, because there's a whole code, unwritten but no less rigid than if… — S. Bear Bergman Copy Share Image
“I had great femme mentors, I had good role models of gentle men, I found ways to be a butch that did not require… — S. Bear Bergman Copy Share Image
So please, for the love of gender- go bloom. Or water someone else while they do. — S. Bear Bergman Copy Share Image
“I have a whole set of problem-solving behaviors and I am anxious to use them, in much the same way that I would stand… — S. Bear Bergman Copy Share Image
“You do not see deviantly gendered people walking around with Nalgene bottles, getting our sixty-four recommended ounces as we go through our days. I… — S. Bear Bergman Copy Share Image
