Forgiveness is not about the other person or what they did. Forgiveness is for YOU and about YOU. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
If you don't ask for what you need, the need will keep getting bigger. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You are always being prepared for something better or protected from something worse. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We're all in prison. All of us are in prison, but some of us have a key. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Wherever your gift is, that's where it's going to be your greatest challenge. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Everything we experience-no matter how unpleasant-comes into our lives to teach us something. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You cannot get to where you are going until you have learned all there is to learn about where you are. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Love people enough to tell them the truth and respect them enough to trust that they can handle it. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When I say to you, sister-woman, 'You out of order', that isn't an attack on you. I know what I'm looking at.… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
If you don't have a vision you're going to be stuck in what you know. And the only thing you know is… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
The beloved is one who nurtures you, trusts you, supports you, encourages you, loves you without conditions. That's you. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We really don't know how to love each other because we haven't really learned to love ourselves. In many instances, not all,… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Beloveds, you are fine, just the way you are! Perfect in your imperfection! You are divine! Growing brighter and more brilliant each… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Your divine mate already exists. When you get to the place in yourself that is peaceful divine love, your true mate will… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
I surround people in unconditional acceptance and love to such a degree that everything that is unloving about them rises to the… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
You must be willing to give total unconditional love to everyone, under all circumstances. That means being willing to be totally responsible… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
“There is only one way to shift your consciousness from painful conditional attachments to peaceful unconditional love. You must create new love… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
If you are a card-carrying human being, chances are that you share the same fear as all other humans: the fear of… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
In love, there is a total acceptance of self, and a willingness to give of self without an expectation of receiving anything… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Everyone is always looking for their beloved. Well, why can't you be your own beloved? Fall in love with yourself. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Truth is love's mother, and we all know it is not wise to lie to anyone's mother. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Tell your story because your story will heal you and it will heal someone else. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
With all things in life, we do not get what we ask for, we get what we expect. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Love is not all that is required in a relationship. It needs understanding, openness, kidness, patience, long-suffering — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
“God is love. Love is always present, surrounding us; guiding, growing, and teaching us. Even in the midst of total chaos, pain,… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
For some reason,we keep forgetting some of our experience. We look back but don't bring the value forward. We bring the anger, the upset.… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
“Life would be so much easier if, when we hit a snag in a relationship, any relationship, we would stop, address it, and move… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
How do you spell peace? P-R-A-Y-E-R! Anything you believe you need is available to you through prayer. We are not talking here about a… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
We are distracted from our greatness because are greatness is what scares us. Right where you are…God is. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
Some children do what they’re told to do; some children do what they’re told not to do; all children do what they’re parents have… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
You can accept or reject the way you are treated by other people, but until you heal the wounds of your past, you will… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
We must each learn to feel comfortable in our own uniqueness by rising above the fear of being wrong and the aversion to being… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
I am not seeking anything but service to my creator. I do not need a house, I do not need a car, I do… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
The remedy for life's broken pieces is not classes, workshops or books. Don't try to heal the broken pieces. Just forgive. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
When someone entrusts their heart to you they are giving you a piece of their soul. You cannot treat the soul casually. You must… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
When you have something to do life will not allow you to ove foward until you do it. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
Have you doubted your progress, regretted your choices, put yourself down? Remember that you are doing just fine. Remind yourself right now that no… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
The only relationship we can have in this life is the relationship we have with ourselves. We cannot love anybody more than we love… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
