You have to learn to say no not just to things you don't want to do, you have to say no to things that you want to do, things that are good to do. You have to realize that every… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
I think sometimes by portraying our lives as being too perfect, as being too balanced, we're actually selling younger women a bill of goods… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
I think what women are doing to themselves is that they're seeing these different images of perfection - the perfect wife, the perfect mother,… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
I think one thing that women can do is to just be more honest, with themselves and with their friends, and be more willing… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
I really don't see any men sitting in the corner office plotting to keep women out. All the men I know are actively trying… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
We've reached the point where the demand for rules is about to replace the demand for chaos. — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
I certainly wouldn't go back and blame feminism, because all that feminism was really trying to do, which was huge, was to create a… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
It's oppressive. ... It's food, it's clothing, it's all the magazines that come under the heading of things looking simple. Men's magazines don't seem… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
They're coming out of high school exhausted. The pressure in high school is killing these kids. By the time they get to college, they… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
Feminism wasn’t supposed to make us miserable. It was supposed to make us free; to give women the power to shape their fortunes and… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
We must...forge partnerships with those around us, and begin to dismantle the myth of solitary perfection. — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
If two people have a couple of kids, somebody does have to take care of the kids. Somebody does have to cook dinner; somebody… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
I think what we need to do is to step back as a society and say okay, we've kind of turned things upside-down. We… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
Rather than seeing the opportunities that feminism created they very easy morph into expectations. — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
'Maybe' is what gets us into trouble, because I think constantly women are saying I'll try to do it, maybe I'll do it, I'll… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
