“Don’t talk to yourself in such a way that if you did so to a friend, it would end your friendship. If you had a friend dealing with the same things, you wouldn’t berate that person, say, ‘You’re not working… — Pat Cadigan Copy Share Image
“When a man's his own enemy, it's only because he's too much his own friend; not because he's careful for everybody but himself. Pooh! Pooh! There ain't such a thing in nature.” — Charles Dickens Copy Share Image
![“Don’t talk to yourself in such a way that if you did so to a friend, it would end your friendship. If you had a friend dealing with the same things, you wouldn’t berate that person, say, ‘You’re not working hard enough,’ ‘You suck,’ or ‘You’re not as good as [whomever].’ You’d offer your friend…” quote by Pat Cadigan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/f3a/pat-cadigan-48220_friendship_don-t-talk-to-yourself-in-such-a-way-tha_799329.jpg)
