Everyone," Ross said, "seems a little less concerned than…
““Everyone," Ross said, "seems a little less concerned than I do. Am I more tender-hearted for others or only tender because of my own conscience?" "We are not–untender," she said. "Not so. But maybe we are more–resigned. When a man is condemned to death we accept it, though it's sad to do so. We know we cannot change it. You hoped to change it–so it's more of a–a disappointment. You feel you have failed. We don't feel that because we never hoped to succeed.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
A dialogue explores differing levels of concern, tenderness, and resignation when facing inevitable loss, suggesting that hope shapes disappointment.
In simple terms: Concern and tenderness vary with personal hope.
Acknowledge how hope influences disappointment.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- grief counseling
- ethical decision making
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you accept loss without hope?
- How does hope affect your response to failure?
May overlook practical coping strategies beyond emotional acceptance.