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“H. W. Longfellow, “If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each man’s life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility.” quote by William Ury
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““H. W. Longfellow, “If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each man’s life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility.””

William Ury

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Understanding others' pain reveals shared humanity, reducing conflict.

In simple terms: Seeing others' suffering lowers hostility.

Key Takeaway

Empathize to defuse tension.

Themes

empathy conflict resolution humanity

Mood

thoughtful hopeful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • diplomacy
  • personal relationships
  • mediations

Key Concepts

psychology shared experience

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we cultivate empathy in hostile negotiations?
  • What limits does empathy face in systemic conflict?
A Different Perspective

Empathy alone may not change entrenched power dynamics.

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