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“am grateful for your comments. Friends are those who tell you the truth, even if it is hard to hear,” I told the group of Palestinian leaders. “I understand your distrust—it is born through painful experience. You are right to have these questions and concerns. Here is the key point: you refer to…” quote by William Ury
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““am grateful for your comments. Friends are those who tell you the truth, even if it is hard to hear,” I told the group of Palestinian leaders. “I understand your distrust—it is born through painful experience. You are right to have these questions and concerns. Here is the key point: you refer to us as the leaders of the project but that is not how we see ourselves. Yes, we have been studying the social and economic potential of this path. The true leaders, however, can only be the peoples in the region and here in this place the leaders must be Palestinians. We can study the possibilities and we can lend our support to overcome obstacles, but the leadership role belongs to you. And there is no rush. We can wait until you tell us you are ready. Tell us what you would like to do.””

William Ury

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

True leadership belongs to the people directly affected, not external observers; empowerment requires patience and listening

In simple terms: People should lead themselves; outsiders support but do not dominate

Key Takeaway

Empower locals, wait for readiness

Themes

leadership empowerment patience

Mood

respectful hopeful

Type

inspirational dialogue

When to use this quote

  • peace negotiations
  • community development
  • capacity building

Key Concepts

self-determination supportive facilitation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can outsiders best support without imposing?
  • What signals show a community is ready to lead?
A Different Perspective

External expertise may be perceived as paternalistic

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