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“When one man has been under very remarkable obligations to another, with whom he subsequently quarrels, a common sense of decency, as it were, makes of the former a much severer enemy than a mere stranger would be. To account for your own hard-heartedness and ingratitude in such a case, you are…” quote by William Makepeace Thackeray
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““When one man has been under very remarkable obligations to another, with whom he subsequently quarrels, a common sense of decency, as it were, makes of the former a much severer enemy than a mere stranger would be. To account for your own hard-heartedness and ingratitude in such a case, you are bound to prove the other party's crime. It is not that you are selfish, brutal, and angry at the failure of a speculation--no, no--it is that your partner has led you into it by the basest treachery and with the most sinister motives. From a mere sense of consistency, a persecutor is bound to show that the fallen man is a villain--otherwise he, the persecutor, is a wretch himself.””

William Makepeace Thackeray

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

When close ties turn sour, the betrayal feels deeper because of prior obligations, prompting harsher judgment of the betrayer.

In simple terms: Betrayal feels worse when there was a strong prior bond.

Key Takeaway

Recognize the impact of past obligations on current conflicts.

Themes

trust betrayal justice relationships

Mood

reflective somber

Type

philosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • friendship breakdown
  • business partnership disputes
  • family inheritance conflicts

Key Concepts

reciprocity moral accountability psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you judge others more harshly because of past closeness?
  • How can you balance accountability with empathy?
A Different Perspective

It may overlook the betrayer's own circumstances or motives.

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