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I'm not a good father and they're not children any more…

“I'm not a good father and they're not children any more; the eldest is in his fifties. My relationship with their mothers broke down and, because of what the law was, they went with their mothers and were imbued with their mothers' morality in life and they were not my people any more.” quote by Wilbur Smith
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“I'm not a good father and they're not children any more; the eldest is in his fifties. My relationship with their mothers broke down and, because of what the law was, they went with their mothers and were imbued with their mothers' morality in life and they were not my people any more.”

Wilbur Smith

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A father reflects on estranged adult children and the loss of familial bonds due to legal and moral separation.

In simple terms: Father feels disconnected from adult children.

Key Takeaway

Seek reconciliation and open communication.

Themes

family estrangement generational gaps legal impact

Mood

reflective somber

Type

advice personal narrative

When to use this quote

  • parent‑child relationships
  • elderly parent support
  • family mediation

Key Concepts

sociology family dynamics identity

Questions to Reflect On

  • What steps can be taken to rebuild trust?
  • How does cultural morality shape family ties?
A Different Perspective

Legal custody decisions can deepen emotional distance.

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