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It happens that I despise that locution, "having sex,"…

“It happens that I despise that locution, "having sex," which describes something a good deal more mechanical than making love and a good deal less fun than fucking.” quote by Wallace Stegner
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““It happens that I despise that locution, "having sex," which describes something a good deal more mechanical than making love and a good deal less fun than fucking.””

Wallace Stegner

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker dislikes the term “having sex” because it sounds mechanical and less enjoyable than love or passionate intimacy.

In simple terms: Dislikes clinical language for sex.

Key Takeaway

Use language that reflects emotional depth.

Themes

language intimacy communication

Mood

reflective critical

Type

philosophical observational

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • sexual education
  • writing
  • therapy

Key Concepts

semantics emotional nuance

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does word choice affect intimacy?
  • Can language shape sexual experience?
A Different Perspective

The term may still be useful in clinical contexts.

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