I couldn't bring myself to call him by his first name…
“I couldn't bring myself to call him by his first name, that wasn't my upbringing. So I suggested I call him 'Anandji.' He glared at me and said, 'Do I look like a schoolteacher to you?' The next day when I called him 'Dev Saab' he looked around as though he didn't know whom I was addressing.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
He respects cultural naming conventions, showing how titles reflect social hierarchy.
In simple terms: Names and titles signal respect and hierarchy.
Key Takeaway
Use appropriate titles to show respect.
Themes
culture
respect
hierarchy
Mood
respectful
thoughtful
Type
cultural
observational
When to use this quote
- workplace
- family gatherings
- formal events
Key Concepts
social norms
identity
Practical Applications
- address people with proper titles
- learn cultural etiquette
Questions to Reflect On
- When is it appropriate to use formal titles?
- How do titles affect relationships?
A Different Perspective
Overusing titles can feel forced.