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“Why do you seek the society of someone who hates and despises you?" "My dear fellow, what the hell do you suppose I care what you think of me?” quote by W. Somerset Maugham
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““Why do you seek the society of someone who hates and despises you?" "My dear fellow, what the hell do you suppose I care what you think of me?””

W. Somerset Maugham

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Questioning why one seeks companionship with someone who despises them, and dismissing concern for others’ opinions.

In simple terms: Don’t chase those who hate you; ignore others’ judgments.

Key Takeaway

Value self‑respect over others’ approval.

Themes

relationships self‑worth independence

Mood

reflective defiant assertive

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • friendship
  • romantic pursuits
  • career networking
  • family ties
  • social media

Key Concepts

psychology social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What relationships truly support you?
  • When is it healthy to care about others’ views?
A Different Perspective

May encourage isolation or disregard for constructive feedback.

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