In love one should exercise economy of intercourse. None…
““In love one should exercise economy of intercourse. None of us can love for ever. Love will be stronger and will last longer if there are impediments of its gratification. If a lover is prevented from enjoying his love by absence, difficulty of access, or by the caprice or coldness of his beloved, he can find a little consolation in the thought that when his wishes are fulfilled his delight will be intense. But love being what it is, should there be no hindrances, he will pay no attention to the considerations of prudence; and his punishment will be satiety. The love that lasts longest is the love that is never returned.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Love thrives when desire is tempered by obstacles; scarcity heightens longing and intensity, while easy access leads to complacency.
In simple terms: Obstacles make love stronger and longer lasting.
Key Takeaway
Embrace challenges to deepen affection.
Themes
love
desire
patience
longing
complacency
Mood
reflective
melancholic
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- long-distance love
- unrequited love
- personal growth
Key Concepts
psychology
human nature
attachment
Questions to Reflect On
- How do obstacles shape the depth of your relationships?
- Can scarcity increase appreciation?
A Different Perspective
If love is too easy, it may become dull and unfulfilling.