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The long, curled hair, the dark head bent so reverently…

“The long, curled hair, the dark head bent so reverently, so innocently before her, implied a pair of the finest legs that a young nobleman has ever stood upright upon; and violet eyes; and a heart of gold; and loyalty and manly charm--all qualities which the old woman loved the more the more they…” quote by Virginia Woolf
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““The long, curled hair, the dark head bent so reverently, so innocently before her, implied a pair of the finest legs that a young nobleman has ever stood upright upon; and violet eyes; and a heart of gold; and loyalty and manly charm--all qualities which the old woman loved the more the more they failed her. For she was growing old and worn and bent before her time. The sound of cannon was always in her ears. She saw always the glistening poison drop and the long stiletto. As she sat at table she listened; she heard the guns in the Channel; she dreaded--was that a curse, was that a whisper? Innocence, simplicity, were all the more dear to her for the dark background she set them against.””

Virginia Woolf

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Obsession with idealized qualities and looming threats creates inner conflict and melancholy.

In simple terms: Idealizing others and fearing loss leads to sorrow.

Key Takeaway

Balance admiration with realistic expectations.

Themes

idealization age war innocence loneliness

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • wartime reflection
  • personal relationships
  • artistic creation
  • mental health counseling

Key Concepts

psychology literature existentialism

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you reconcile admiration and reality?
  • What comforts you in times of fear?
A Different Perspective

Idealization may cause unrealistic standards.

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