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“if you do nothing but urge people to “look out for number one,” you will be setting them up for future failure in any relationship, especially marriage.” quote by Timothy Keller
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““if you do nothing but urge people to “look out for number one,” you will be setting them up for future failure in any relationship, especially marriage.””

Timothy Keller

About This Quote

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Prioritizing self-interest harms relational health; genuine love requires selflessness and mutual care.

In simple terms: Selfishness damages relationships; love needs selflessness.

Key Takeaway

Practice selfless love.

Themes

marriage selfishness relationships

Mood

thoughtful concerned

Type

advice spiritual

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • friendships
  • team projects

Key Concepts

theology psychology ethics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance self-care with caring for others?
  • What limits should be set on self-sacrifice?
A Different Perspective

Self-sacrifice can lead to resentment if not balanced.

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