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We are obliged to love one another. We are not strictly…

“We are obliged to love one another. We are not strictly bound to 'like' one another. Love governs the will: 'liking' is a matter of sense and sensibility. Nevertheless, if we really love others it will not be too hard to like them also.” quote by Thomas Merton
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“We are obliged to love one another. We are not strictly bound to 'like' one another. Love governs the will: 'liking' is a matter of sense and sensibility. Nevertheless, if we really love others it will not be too hard to like them also.”

Thomas Merton

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Love transcends mere liking; it commands the will, making affection a deeper, intentional choice.

In simple terms: Love is a deliberate will, not just feeling.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate love through intentional will.

Themes

love will human connection

Mood

hopeful serene

Type

spiritual ethical

When to use this quote

  • Marriage
  • friendship
  • community service

Key Concepts

Moral philosophy spirituality interpersonal ethics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you will love in difficult relationships?
  • What distinguishes love from simple liking?
A Different Perspective

Liking without love may be superficial; love requires effort.

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