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“Friendship is but another name for an alliance with the follies and the misfortunes of others. Our own share of miseries is sufficient: why enter then as volunteers into those of another?” quote by Thomas Jefferson
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“Friendship is but another name for an alliance with the follies and the misfortunes of others. Our own share of miseries is sufficient: why enter then as volunteers into those of another?”

Thomas Jefferson

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Friendship binds us to others' troubles, adding to our own burdens, so we should question volunteering for others' misfortunes.

In simple terms: Friendship adds others' problems to yours.

Key Takeaway

Consider if helping others adds undue strain.

Themes

friendship responsibility burden

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family crises
  • community support
  • volunteering
  • mental health
  • personal boundaries

Key Concepts

social contract altruism

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you gain more than you lose in a friendship?
  • When is it wise to set limits?
A Different Perspective

Not all relationships are harmful; mutual aid can be rewarding.

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