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Yet Clare's love was doubtless ethereal to a fault…

“Yet Clare's love was doubtless ethereal to a fault, imaginative to impracticability. With these natures, corporeal presence is sometimes less appealing than corporeal absence; the latter creating an ideal presence that conveniently drops the defects of the real.” quote by Thomas Hardy
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““Yet Clare's love was doubtless ethereal to a fault, imaginative to impracticability. With these natures, corporeal presence is sometimes less appealing than corporeal absence; the latter creating an ideal presence that conveniently drops the defects of the real.””

Thomas Hardy

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Idealized love can seem more perfect when absent, as presence reveals flaws that imagination hides.

In simple terms: Imagined love feels flawless compared to real love.

Key Takeaway

Balance idealization with realistic expectations.

Themes

love idealization perception

Mood

reflective poetic

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • creative writing
  • self‑reflection
  • personal expectations

Key Concepts

romantic idealism psychology of absence

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does “ideal presence” cost you?
  • Can absence ever truly improve perception?
A Different Perspective

Idealizing can prevent authentic connections and growth.

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