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“Things were different back then. Today if a woman was asked to do the things we did back then, she would revolt, declare that she wasn’t anyone’s slave, wouldn’t be put upon in that fashion. But you have to remember that this was before automatic washers and dishwashers, before blenders and…” quote by Susan Lynn Peterson
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““Things were different back then. Today if a woman was asked to do the things we did back then, she would revolt, declare that she wasn’t anyone’s slave, wouldn’t be put upon in that fashion. But you have to remember that this was before automatic washers and dishwashers, before blenders and electric knives. If the carpet was going to get cleaned, someone, usually a woman, would have to take a broom to it, or would have to haul it on her shoulders to the yard and beat the dirt out of it. If the wet clothes were going to get dry, someone had to hang them in the yard, take them down from the yard, heat the iron on the fire, press them, and finally fold or hang them. Food was chopped by hand, fires were stoked by hand, water was carried by hand, anything roasted, toasted, broiled, dried, beaten, pressed, packed, or pickled, was done so by hand. Our version of a laborsaving device was called a spouse. If a man had a woman by his side, he didn’t have to clean and cook for himself. If a woman had a man by her side, she didn’t have to go out, earn a living, then come home and wrestle the house to the ground in the evening.””

Susan Lynn Peterson

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The quote contrasts past domestic labor expectations with modern feminist resistance, highlighting how technology reduced physical chores and altered gender dynamics.

In simple terms: Past chores were done by women; now women resist being confined to domestic roles.

Key Takeaway

Recognize how technology and social change reshape gender expectations.

Themes

gender roles technology feminism labor history

Mood

reflective critical historical

Type

analytical social commentary

When to use this quote

  • Household chores
  • career choices
  • marriage expectations
  • activism
  • historical comparison

Key Concepts

Domestic labor technological progress social change

Questions to Reflect On

  • How have modern appliances changed gender expectations?
  • What responsibilities remain beyond chores?
A Different Perspective

The analogy of a spouse as a labor‑saving device oversimplifies complex emotional and economic partnerships.

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