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“When I ask the young people from California why they want to go to New York, and the ones from the East why they're determined to go West, I hear what you'd expect: new challenges, different weather, boyfriends, girlfriends, to make a name... They laugh when I say, 'But your poor mother.'” quote by Susan Estrich
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“When I ask the young people from California why they want to go to New York, and the ones from the East why they're determined to go West, I hear what you'd expect: new challenges, different weather, boyfriends, girlfriends, to make a name... They laugh when I say, 'But your poor mother.'”

Susan Estrich

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

People often chase new places for novelty, romance, and reputation, overlooking practical concerns like family support.

In simple terms: People seek change for excitement, ignoring family costs.

Key Takeaway

Consider both dreams and responsibilities.

Themes

ambition relationships family geography career

Mood

reflective analytical

Type

observational sociological

When to use this quote

  • college decisions
  • career moves
  • relocation
  • family planning

Key Concepts

social mobility risk assessment personal values

Questions to Reflect On

  • What are the hidden costs of chasing new horizons?
  • How do family ties influence personal ambition?
A Different Perspective

The quote romanticizes migration without addressing economic or emotional costs.

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