Skip to content

From the day he first made me his, to the last day I made…

“From the day he first made me his, to the last day I made him mine, yes, let me set it down in numbers. I who can count and reckon, and have the time. Of all the days I was his and did not love him—this; and this; and this many. Of all the days I was his—and he had ceased to love me—this many; and…” quote by Susan Bordo
Download Open image
““From the day he first made me his, to the last day I made him mine, yes, let me set it down in numbers. I who can count and reckon, and have the time. Of all the days I was his and did not love him—this; and this; and this many. Of all the days I was his—and he had ceased to love me—this many; and this. In days—it comes to a thousand days—out of the years. Strangely, just a thousand. And of that thousand—one—when we were both in love. Only one, when our loves met and overlapped and were both mine and his. When I no longer hated him, he began to hate me. Except for that one day. One day, out of all the years.30””

Susan Bordo

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker quantifies the complex, fluctuating emotional relationship, noting only one day of mutual love amid many days of imbalance.

In simple terms: Only one day of true mutual love in a long relationship.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and cherish rare moments of true connection.

Themes

love relationships time emotions

Mood

nostalgic analytical

Type

philosophical emotional

When to use this quote

  • relationship counseling
  • personal reflection
  • journaling
  • examining love patterns

Key Concepts

quantification subjective experience

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does that single day mean to you now?
  • Can you identify patterns that led to that day?
A Different Perspective

Numbers cannot capture the depth of feeling.

★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet

More by Susan Bordo

Explore all 3 Susan Bordo quotes

More Last day quotes

Browse all 583 Last day quotes