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“Women themselves condition their daughters to serve the system of male primacy. If a daughter challenges it, the mother will generally defend the system rather than her daughter. These mothers, victims themselves, have unwittingly become wounded wounders. Women need to attack culture's oppression…” quote by Sue Monk Kidd
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“Women themselves condition their daughters to serve the system of male primacy. If a daughter challenges it, the mother will generally defend the system rather than her daughter. These mothers, victims themselves, have unwittingly become wounded wounders. Women need to attack culture's oppression of women, for there truly is a godlike socializing power that induces women to "buy in" or collude, but we also need to confront our own part in accepting male dominance and take responsibility where appropriate.”

Sue Monk Kidd

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Women often perpetuate patriarchal norms by socializing daughters to accept male dominance, even when it harms them.

In simple terms: Women can unintentionally reinforce oppression.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and break cycles of internalized sexism.

Themes

gender socialization patriarchy intergenerational trauma responsibility

Mood

reflective critical hopeful

Type

analytical activist

When to use this quote

  • family upbringing
  • education
  • media influence
  • peer groups

Key Concepts

internalized oppression social conditioning systemic bias

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you see yourself upholding harmful norms?
  • What steps can you take to support other women?
A Different Perspective

Change requires confronting personal complicity, which can be uncomfortable.

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