An actor notes that male stars often take most of the money, while others discuss how strong male magnetism can feel overwhelming. Some talk about the challenges faced by black males and the pressure on white males. Many mention how gender expectations shape careers and self‑image.
![“I grew up not understanding what was true and what was not true. It gave me a sense of unreality. I was told that this man [mom's lover] was not my mother's lover - when he was. I was told he was there as a male babysitter for my brother so that he would learn sports and other manly things.” quote by Carly Simon](https://sms4smile.com/q/img-quotes/be5/carly-simon-9969_babysitter_i-grew-up-not-understanding-what-was-tru_666648.jpg)
