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“Jess actually dreaded having a boyfriend, because of having to tell her mum. Perhaps she would just avoid it until her mum eighty or something and in an old-people's home, and then Jess, who would by then be about fifty, would drop by and casually remark, "Oh, by the way, Mum, I've got a…” quote by Sue Limb
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““Jess actually dreaded having a boyfriend, because of having to tell her mum. Perhaps she would just avoid it until her mum eighty or something and in an old-people's home, and then Jess, who would by then be about fifty, would drop by and casually remark, "Oh, by the way, Mum, I've got a boyfriend." And even then her mum would probebly hurtle out of her wheelchair and smack her hard across the face, crying "You trash! You whore! Get outta my house--I mean, my room!" It was hard sometimes, being the daughter of a radical feminist who hated men. ””

Sue Limb

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A daughter fears confronting her radical feminist mother about a boyfriend, anticipating violent rejection.

In simple terms: Fear of maternal backlash over relationships.

Key Takeaway

Navigate family conflict with honesty.

Themes

family gender conflict

Mood

anxious dramatic

Type

literary social commentary

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • family gatherings
  • personal autonomy
  • mental health

Key Concepts

radical feminism intergenerational trauma

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does parental ideology shape personal choices?
  • Can you find a middle ground?
A Different Perspective

The mother’s extreme reaction may be exaggerated for effect.

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