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“One dangerous definition of happiness is to think of happiness as kind of a warm, joyful feeling in your heart that you have to pursue and grab and hold onto for fear that it'll go away. A better way to think about happiness that actually is something that I think you can reach towards is, it's…” quote by Steven C. Hayes
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“One dangerous definition of happiness is to think of happiness as kind of a warm, joyful feeling in your heart that you have to pursue and grab and hold onto for fear that it'll go away. A better way to think about happiness that actually is something that I think you can reach towards is, it's living in accord with your values and in a way that is more open and accepting of your history as it echoes into the present, that's more self-affirming, self-validating and values-based. The Greeks had a word for it; they called it eudaimonia. And it is something that will empower human lives.”

Steven C. Hayes

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Happiness is better understood as living aligned with values (eudaimonia) rather than chasing fleeting feelings.

In simple terms: True happiness comes from value‑driven living, not just feeling good.

Key Takeaway

Align actions with core values daily.

Themes

eudaimonia values psychology well‑being

Mood

thoughtful encouraging

Type

philosophical practical

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • career decisions
  • relationship building
  • health habits

Key Concepts

happiness meaning self‑acceptance personal growth

Questions to Reflect On

  • What values guide your daily choices?
  • How can you measure progress toward eudaimonia?
A Different Perspective

Chasing pleasure can lead to disappointment if values are ignored.

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