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He is altogether selfish, she thought in some surprise…

“He is altogether selfish, she thought in some surprise, the only man I have ever sat and talked to alone, and I am impatient; he is simply not very interesting.” quote by Shirley Jackson
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“He is altogether selfish, she thought in some surprise, the only man I have ever sat and talked to alone, and I am impatient; he is simply not very interesting.”

Shirley Jackson

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The narrator finds the man both selfish and uninteresting, yet feels impatient for deeper connection.

In simple terms: She sees him as selfish and boring, yet craves intimacy.

Key Takeaway

Seek authentic connections.

Themes

relationships self‑perception impatience

Mood

reflective critical

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • friendship building
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

literary analysis human behavior loneliness

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do we label people before knowing them?
  • What does impatience reveal about our needs?
A Different Perspective

May misjudge others quickly.

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