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I didn’t want to be in love with you. I didn’t want to…

“I didn’t want to be in love with you. I didn’t want to believe in love at all. It’s never happened to me before. And to be perfectly frank, I’m still not entirely happy about the whole thing. I think—it’s going to be exhausting. You’re domineering and devious and I’ve noticed that whenever we’re…” quote by Shana Abé
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““I didn’t want to be in love with you. I didn’t want to believe in love at all. It’s never happened to me before. And to be perfectly frank, I’m still not entirely happy about the whole thing. I think—it’s going to be exhausting. You’re domineering and devious and I’ve noticed that whenever we’re not kissing, I wish we were.” Her voice had grown nearly plaintive; she stopped and cleared her throat. “It’s a damnable situation. I don’t know what to do about it.” He eyed her from the chair. “I’m pigheaded, too. Pray don’t forget that.” “Certainly not. It was the next thing I was going to mention.” “My sweet, your notion of love is unique, to say the least. I wonder that you haven’t written me sonnets already. Something like ‘Ode to the Blackguard.””

Shana Abé

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The narrator expresses conflicted feelings about love, mixing desire, frustration, and self-awareness of their own stubbornness.

In simple terms: Love feels exhausting and confusing.

Key Takeaway

Accept complexity, communicate honestly.

Themes

love conflict self-awareness

Mood

melancholic introspective

Type

literary romantic

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • personal introspection
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

desire exhaustion communication

Questions to Reflect On

  • What fears underlie your desire for love?
  • How can you address the exhaustion?
A Different Perspective

Love may not resolve all issues.

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