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“For the child whose impulsiveness is indulged, who retains his primitive-discharge mechanisms, is not only an ill-behaved child but a child whose intellectual development is slowed down. No matter how well he is endowed intellectually, if direct action and immediate gratification are the guiding…” quote by Selma Fraiberg
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“For the child whose impulsiveness is indulged, who retains his primitive-discharge mechanisms, is not only an ill-behaved child but a child whose intellectual development is slowed down. No matter how well he is endowed intellectually, if direct action and immediate gratification are the guiding principles of his behavior, there will be less incentive to develop the higher mental processes, to reason, to employ the imagination creatively. . . .”

Selma Fraiberg

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Indulging impulsive, gratification‑seeking behavior hinders development of reasoning and imagination.

In simple terms: Immediate gratification blocks higher mental growth.

Key Takeaway

Encourage delayed gratification and reflective thinking.

Themes

parenting development self‑control

Mood

concerned reflective

Type

advisory educational

When to use this quote

  • education
  • child rearing
  • therapy
  • discipline
  • creative problem solving

Key Concepts

psychology cognitive development

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can caregivers balance freedom and structure?
  • What activities foster imagination over instant reward?
A Different Perspective

Children may still develop higher functions with appropriate guidance.

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