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“No, you're not. If you were really sorry, you wouldn't have done it. We do as we please, and then say we're sorry. But we're not sorry. We're just uncomfortable--watching other people in pain.” quote by Sarah Ruhl
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““No, you're not. If you were really sorry, you wouldn't have done it. We do as we please, and then say we're sorry. But we're not sorry. We're just uncomfortable--watching other people in pain.””

Sarah Ruhl

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

People often hide behind insincere apologies while feeling discomfort at others' suffering.

In simple terms: Insincere apologies mask discomfort.

Key Takeaway

Acknowledge true feelings instead of false apologies.

Themes

empathy authenticity discomfort

Mood

reflective serious

Type

ethical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • conflict resolution
  • team dynamics

Key Concepts

psychology social behavior

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do we say sorry when we aren't?
  • How can we express discomfort constructively?
A Different Perspective

Apologies without remorse can damage trust.

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