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I think you have to have your own expectations of yourself…

“I think you have to have your own expectations of yourself and your own sense of purpose and your own intrinsic pleasure in the task. If you don't, you will drive yourself off a cliff because your fortunes will rise and fall, and if you identify too closely with that, you really will go insane.” quote by Sarah Ruhl
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“I think you have to have your own expectations of yourself and your own sense of purpose and your own intrinsic pleasure in the task. If you don't, you will drive yourself off a cliff because your fortunes will rise and fall, and if you identify too closely with that, you really will go insane.”

Sarah Ruhl

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Self‑imposed expectations and purpose can become dangerous if overly identified with, leading to mental collapse.

In simple terms: Too much self‑pressure can drive you crazy.

Key Takeaway

Set expectations, avoid over‑identification.

Themes

self expectations mental health

Mood

thoughtful cautious

Type

philosophical advice

When to use this quote

  • career planning
  • personal goals
  • creative work
  • stress management

Key Concepts

psychology identity purpose

Questions to Reflect On

  • What expectations truly serve you?
  • How can you separate self‑worth from outcomes?
A Different Perspective

High expectations can motivate, not just harm.

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