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Look,” he said, “the point is there’s no way to be a…

“Look,” he said, “the point is there’s no way to be a hundred percent sure about anyone or anything. So you’re left with a choice. Either hope for the best, or just expect the worst.” If you expect the worst, you’re never disappointed,” I pointed out. Yeah, but who lives like that?” quote by Sarah Dessen
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““Look,” he said, “the point is there’s no way to be a hundred percent sure about anyone or anything. So you’re left with a choice. Either hope for the best, or just expect the worst.” If you expect the worst, you’re never disappointed,” I pointed out. Yeah, but who lives like that?””

Sarah Dessen

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Uncertainty forces a choice between hopeful optimism and defensive pessimism; each shapes experience.

In simple terms: Choose hope or expect worst; both affect outcomes.

Key Takeaway

Embrace hope, manage expectations.

Themes

uncertainty choice optimism

Mood

thoughtful inspirational

Type

philosophical advice

When to use this quote

  • career decisions
  • relationships
  • health goals

Key Concepts

cognitive bias expectation management

Questions to Reflect On

  • What would change if you expected the best?
  • How does fear of disappointment shape your actions?
A Different Perspective

Pessimism can limit growth and increase disappointment.

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