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“But gomers are not just dear old people,” said Fats. “Gomers are human beings who have lost what goes into being human beings. They want to die, and we will not let them. We’re cruel to the gomers, by saving them, and they’re cruel to us, by fighting tooth and nail against our trying to save them…” quote by Samuel Shem
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““But gomers are not just dear old people,” said Fats. “Gomers are human beings who have lost what goes into being human beings. They want to die, and we will not let them. We’re cruel to the gomers, by saving them, and they’re cruel to us, by fighting tooth and nail against our trying to save them. They hurt us, we hurt them.””

Samuel Shem

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This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Elderly patients are dehumanized when society treats them as burdens rather than beings, creating mutual cruelty.

In simple terms: Treat the elderly as humans, not problems.

Key Takeaway

Restore dignity to aging individuals.

Themes

aging humanity care cruelty

Mood

empathetic critical

Type

ethical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • hospital care
  • family decisions
  • policy making

Key Concepts

bioethics compassion medical ethics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we balance care and autonomy?
  • What policies protect dignity?
A Different Perspective

Societal attitudes often ignore individual suffering.

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