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So much of the trouble is because I am a woman. To me it…

“So much of the trouble is because I am a woman. To me it seems a very terrible thing to be a woman. There is one crown which perhaps is worth it all--a great love, a quiet home, and children. We all know that is all that is worthwhile, and yet we must peg away, showing off our wares on the market…” quote by Ruth Benedict
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“So much of the trouble is because I am a woman. To me it seems a very terrible thing to be a woman. There is one crown which perhaps is worth it all--a great love, a quiet home, and children. We all know that is all that is worthwhile, and yet we must peg away, showing off our wares on the market if we have money, or manufacturing careers for ourselves if we haven't.”

Ruth Benedict

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker feels that being a woman is burdensome, yet sees love, home, and children as the ultimate reward despite societal pressures.

In simple terms: Being a woman feels hard, but love and family give meaning.

Key Takeaway

Value love and family over societal expectations.

Themes

gender roles societal pressure family love identity

Mood

reflective melancholic

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • career decisions
  • family planning
  • social expectations
  • personal fulfillment

Key Concepts

feminist critique existential meaning

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you define worth beyond gender?
  • Can love replace professional ambition?
A Different Perspective

The quote idealizes traditional roles, ignoring diverse paths to fulfillment.

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