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For death is always in the shadow of the delight of love…

“For death is always in the shadow of the delight of love. In faint adumbration there is present the dread, haunting question, Will this new relationship destroy us?...The world is annihilated; how can we know whether it will ever be built up again? We give, and give up, our own center; how shall…” quote by Rollo May
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““For death is always in the shadow of the delight of love. In faint adumbration there is present the dread, haunting question, Will this new relationship destroy us?...The world is annihilated; how can we know whether it will ever be built up again? We give, and give up, our own center; how shall we know that we will get it back?... This...has something in common with the ecstasy of the mystic in his union with God: just as he can never be //sure// God is there, so love carries us to that intensity of consciousness in which we no longer have any guarantee of security.””

Rollo May

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Love brings both deep joy and profound uncertainty, making us vulnerable to loss and existential doubt.

In simple terms: Love is joyful but risky.

Key Takeaway

Embrace love while staying aware of its uncertainty.

Themes

love existentialism vulnerability joy uncertainty

Mood

reflective melancholic hopeful

Type

philosophical emotional insightful

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • friendships
  • spiritual quests
  • creative collaborations

Key Concepts

psychology existential philosophy attachment intimacy

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance love’s joy with its risks?
  • What safeguards protect your sense of self in deep relationships?
A Different Perspective

Love’s intensity can lead to dependency or neglect of self‑care.

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