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“When your goal is to build people up, to make them feel better, to share in their joy, you too reap the rewards of their positive feelings. The next time you have the chance to correct someone, even if their facts are a little off, resist the temptation. Instead, ask yourself, "What do I really…” quote by Richard Carlson
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“When your goal is to build people up, to make them feel better, to share in their joy, you too reap the rewards of their positive feelings. The next time you have the chance to correct someone, even if their facts are a little off, resist the temptation. Instead, ask yourself, "What do I really want out of this interaction?" Chances are, what you want is a peaceful interaction where all parties leave feeling good. Each time you resist 'being right,' and instead choose kindness, you'll notice a peaceful feeling within.”

Richard Carlson

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Focusing on uplifting others and avoiding correction fosters mutual positivity and inner peace.

In simple terms: Kindness over being right creates calm.

Key Takeaway

Choose empathy, not correction.

Themes

kindness communication empathy

Mood

calm empathetic reflective

Type

advice inspirational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • team meetings
  • customer service
  • family discussions
  • friend gatherings
  • online forums

Key Concepts

psychology social dynamics emotional intelligence

Questions to Reflect On

  • What motivates your desire for harmony?
  • How can you balance truth and kindness?
A Different Perspective

Sometimes correcting misinformation is essential for safety or accuracy.

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