If I'm afraid of someone on the street, I'll turn to him…
“If I'm afraid of someone on the street, I'll turn to him (it's always a boy) and say, "Excuse me, do you happen to know what time it is?" This is my way of saying to the person, "I see you as a friend, and there is no need to hurt me or take my stuff. Also, I don't even have a watch and I am probably not worth mugging." So far, it's worked like gangbusters... And I've discovered that most people I'm afraid of are actually very friendly.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Using a harmless question to defuse fear can reveal strangers’ friendliness and reduce personal danger.
In simple terms: Polite inquiry can calm anxiety.
Key Takeaway
Ask a simple question to gauge safety.
Themes
safety
social interaction
confidence
Mood
cautious
hopeful
pragmatic
Type
advice
practical
social
When to use this quote
- walking at night
- traveling alone
- public transport
- urban environments
Key Concepts
psychology
conflict de‑escalation
Questions to Reflect On
- What other non‑threatening gestures could you use?
- When might this approach fail?
A Different Perspective
May not work with hostile individuals or in high‑risk areas.