I have a great editor and I enjoy, in a masochistic way…
“I have a great editor and I enjoy, in a masochistic way, being ruthless about my own performance. How do I know, but I think I'm quite good at saying, "That's no good. That's no good. That's it. That's it. That's good." And I'm with the editor who goes, "No, I think you're wrong. That's not your best." There's an initial point in the editing, if you're directing yourself, especially in my case, where you go, "Ouch, ouch, ouch, I can't watch this." And then, there's a point where you become hard-nosed and just take your neurosis away and go, "What's working? That's okay. That's okay. We can lose that, and lose that." You get objective about it.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Self‑editing demands harsh honesty; balancing critique with self‑compassion leads to growth.
In simple terms: Be brutally honest with yourself, then be kind.
Practice tough self‑review, then nurture improvement.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- writing drafts
- performance reviews
- therapy
- coaching
- creative workshops
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you differentiate constructive criticism from self‑sabotage?
- When is it time to stop editing and act?
Excessive self‑criticism can cause burnout.