They’re just words,” I tell her. “From small men who are…
““They’re just words,” I tell her. “From small men who are brave on the other side of a keyboard and an Internet handle. But I know how you feel.” “It’s awful,” she says in a voice that sounds more like a little girl than the adult she’s trying to be. She clears her throat and tries again. “These people are vile.” “Yes,” I say in agreement, putting my hand on her shoulder. “They’ll never care whether or not you were hurt by what they said, or even if you read it; it was all about writing it for them. It’s natural to feel afraid and violated by all this. I feel that way all the time.” “But?” My daughter knows there’s a but. “But you have the power,” I tell her. “You can turn off this computer and walk away anytime. They’re pixels on a screen.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Online harassment feels personal, but we can reclaim power by disengaging and remembering its virtual nature.
In simple terms: Harassment is painful but not all‑controlling.
Choose to step away and protect yourself.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- social media use
- parenting
- mental health
- online communities
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What boundaries can you set online?
- How do you support others facing similar harassment?
Leaving may not stop the source of abuse.