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“Loving kindness towards ourselves doesn't mean getting rid of anything. It means we can still be crazy after all these years. We can still be angry after all these years. We can still be timid or jealous or full of feelings of unworthiness. The point is not to try to throw ourselves away and…” quote by Pema Chodron
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“Loving kindness towards ourselves doesn't mean getting rid of anything. It means we can still be crazy after all these years. We can still be angry after all these years. We can still be timid or jealous or full of feelings of unworthiness. The point is not to try to throw ourselves away and become something better. It's about befriending who we are already.”

Pema Chodron

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Self‑compassion means accepting all parts of ourselves, not erasing flaws, and befriending our true nature.

In simple terms: Accept yourself fully, flaws included.

Key Takeaway

Embrace your whole self.

Themes

self‑acceptance mindfulness inner work

Mood

reflective calm

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • daily meditation
  • relationships
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

compassion non‑judgment

Questions to Reflect On

  • What parts of yourself do you resist?
  • How can you practice befriending them?
A Different Perspective

Self‑acceptance can be uncomfortable and may clash with societal pressure to improve.

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