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“If seeing that other person's pain brings up your fear or anger or confusion (which often happens), just start doing tonglen for yourself and all the other people who are stuck in the very same way.” quote by Pema Chodron
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“If seeing that other person's pain brings up your fear or anger or confusion (which often happens), just start doing tonglen for yourself and all the other people who are stuck in the very same way.”

Pema Chodron

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

When another’s pain triggers negative emotions, practice tonglen to transform suffering into compassion for all.

In simple terms: Use compassion practice when you feel fear or anger.

Key Takeaway

Turn personal distress into shared compassion.

Themes

compassion mindfulness empathy

Mood

calm hopeful

Type

spiritual practical

When to use this quote

  • counseling
  • conflict resolution
  • personal meditation
  • community service

Key Concepts

Buddhist practice psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you begin tonglen when emotions are intense?
  • What supports sustain compassionate practice?
A Different Perspective

Tonglen may be challenging for deep-seated anger.

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