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“To bring home the point, she compared New Years resolutions of girls at the end of the nineteenth centyry with those at the end of the twentieth. Heres what a young woman of yore wrote: Resolved: to think before speaking. To work seriously. To be self-restrained in conversations and actions. Not…” quote by Peggy Orenstein
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““To bring home the point, she compared New Years resolutions of girls at the end of the nineteenth centyry with those at the end of the twentieth. Heres what a young woman of yore wrote: Resolved: to think before speaking. To work seriously. To be self-restrained in conversations and actions. Not to let my thoughts wander. To be dignified. Interest myself more in others. And the contemporary girl: I will try to make myself better in any way i possibly can… I will lose weight, get new lenses, already got new haircut, good makeup, new clothes and accessories.””

Peggy Orenstein

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The quote contrasts historic and modern women’s self‑improvement goals, highlighting a shift from character‑focused virtues to appearance‑centric aspirations.

In simple terms: Old goals valued self‑control; new goals focus on looks and quick fixes.

Key Takeaway

Reflect on what truly matters to you beyond surface changes.

Themes

self‑improvement gender expectations culture shift identity beauty standards

Mood

reflective critical thoughtful

Type

philosophical social commentary cultural critique

When to use this quote

  • personal development planning
  • career advancement
  • relationship building
  • health and wellness
  • creative projects

Key Concepts

virtue ethics consumerism social comparison self‑esteem media influence

Questions to Reflect On

  • What values do you prioritize when setting personal goals?
  • How can you balance inner development with external expectations?
A Different Perspective

Modern pressures can create superficial satisfaction and neglect deeper growth.

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